Day three post breakup, if indeed you can breakup with someone whom you weren't officially dating, and no texts, no phone calls, no facebooking and it's all such a relief. I am much happier when I don't feel obligated to meet someone else's expectations. That's what jobs are for, not relationships.
It went something like this.
He said, "I don't think you're looking for a serious relationship".
"Exactly, just like I told you when I met you, I like to take it slow. If you force things too quickly, I panic," I said so matter-of-factly that it must have been so obnoxious.
He countered, "But I thought you'd change your mind. I thought you were exactly what I wanted."
"But you're not what I want," I said with a hint of condescension as I tried to walk away.
He pleaded for me to come back, if only just for a second and against my better judgment, I did. I walked slowly towards him. We stood in the dark of the unlit garage. It was freezing.
"Come inside", he nearly begged.
And so I did.
He excused himself to the restroom and I undressed and sat on his bed to wait. Probably because I was a lot drunk, a little bit evil and most definitely screwed up in the head.
"Are you trying to seduce me?" he questioned.
"No, but is it working?"
I woke before sunrise and quietly got dressed, then I left, hoping to never see him again.
5 comments:
wait you broke up with a guy you werent dating by having sex with him?
SIGN ME UP!
I felt I owed him something, seeing as I was kind of scathing and blunt.
Blunt as you may have been, that's still a pretty decent breakup. I think I know a few guys who would have preferred that.
leaving with a bang. awesome.
I wish my breakup last week went like yours.
Unfortunately I live with mine. And we were serious.
Ugh, I should take lessons from you!
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