So incidentally, there is this boy and I think that I might like him,
though evidence thus far is inconclusive. I am for once very unsure
about how he feels towards me, which I find very unusual because under
normal circumstances I can figure this out within five minutes of
conversation. In order to over analyze yet another relationship, I
intend to present the facts and then draw a conclusion. Input is
surely welcomed.
(1) We met under unusual circumstances, which means we were forced to
meet one another by our respective roommates who are dating.
(2) We have so much in common that I find myself saying "Oh my gosh
[blank] is my favorite too" very often and it is almost to the point
that I feel like lying about my interests so that he doesn't think I
am trying to be too conciliatory by constantly agreeing with him.
(3) On our first official date we talked about marriage and how we
felt many of our friends were rushing into it without much thought.
(4) We talked about real estate vacancy rates in the metro area AGAIN.
(5) I told him things about my past that I haven't even told my good
friends. No, I was not drinking.
(6) On at least 3 occasions he referred to seeing me again, though
upon the conclusion of the evening he did not ask me out again.
(7) I must again reiterate that there was no attempt at clothing
removal. This means either (a) he is not interested or (b) he is a
gentleman. I am not sure which is worse.
This dating game, it is very cruel.
3 comments:
Nothing at all, it is almost refreshing. It is just that I am not used to this whole respect thing. So I don't know if respect means "hey I really like you" or "hey I am not interested".
If it were me, which it isn't, it would be the latter.
I have totally had too many things in common before with someone and also felt the need to stop saying so for fear of looking creepy.!
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